From 4e917ac8193aaa0d65f9db101251fe04299fdc4c Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001
From: Jason Staack <jason@staack.com>
Date: Thu, 19 Mar 2026 17:35:44 -0500
Subject: [PATCH] blog: add "Why I'm Not Posting This on Reddit" post

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>
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 docs/website/blog/not-posting-on-reddit.html | 377 +++++++++++++++++++
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 create mode 100644 docs/website/blog/not-posting-on-reddit.html
diff --git a/docs/website/blog/index.html b/docs/website/blog/index.html
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       <p class="blog-subtitle">Updates, insights, and the occasional rant about MikroTik fleet management.</p>
 
       <ul class="blog-list">
+        <li>
+          <a href="not-posting-on-reddit.html">
+            <div class="blog-list-date">March 19, 2026</div>
+            <div class="blog-list-title">Why I'm Not Posting This on Reddit</div>
+            <div class="blog-list-excerpt">I built something and I'm not posting it on Reddit, Hacker News, or anywhere that runs on upvotes. Here's why building in public on forums is a trap.</div>
+          </a>
+        </li>
         <li>
           <a href="free-tier-cap.html">
             <div class="blog-list-date">March 19, 2026</div>
diff --git a/docs/website/blog/not-posting-on-reddit.html b/docs/website/blog/not-posting-on-reddit.html
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+      <div class="blog-post-meta">March 19, 2026</div>
+      <h1>Why I'm Not Posting This on Reddit</h1>
+
+      <p>I built something. And I'm not going to post it on Reddit, Hacker News, or anywhere else that runs on upvotes and drive-by opinions.</p>
+
+      <p>That's not an accident. That's the plan.</p>
+
+      <h2>I've Been Online Long Enough to Know Better</h2>
+
+      <p>I've been on the internet since the BBS days. Dialup. Bulletin boards. Forums where you had to earn a reputation before anyone cared what you thought.</p>
+
+      <p>Before feeds. Before algorithms. Before everything became a performance.</p>
+
+      <p>Back then, if you found something cool, it was because you were <em>looking for it</em>. Not because it was shoved in front of you between ads and arguments.</p>
+
+      <p>Somewhere along the way, the internet stopped being a place to build things and became a place to react to them. MC Frontalot said it better than I can:</p>
+
+      <div class="video-embed" id="video-embed" role="button" tabindex="0" aria-label="Play MC Frontalot — Internet Sucks on YouTube">
+        <div class="video-placeholder">
+          <div class="play-btn">
+            <svg viewBox="0 0 24 24"><polygon points="5,3 19,12 5,21"/></svg>
+          </div>
+          <span>MC Frontalot &mdash; Internet Sucks</span>
+          <span class="video-title">Click to play (opens YouTube)</span>
+        </div>
+      </div>
+
+      <h2>Forums Optimize for the Wrong Things</h2>
+
+      <p>Modern forums reward speed over thought, opinions over experience, and confidence over correctness.</p>
+
+      <p>You don't get real developer feedback. You get:</p>
+
+      <blockquote>
+        <p>&ldquo;this already exists&rdquo;</p>
+        <p>&ldquo;why didn't you use X&rdquo;</p>
+        <p>&ldquo;I wouldn't do it that way&rdquo;</p>
+      </blockquote>
+
+      <p>From people who haven't run it, haven't deployed it, and never will. That's not feedback. That's noise with a score next to it.</p>
+
+      <h2>Building in Public Is a Trap</h2>
+
+      <p>If you start building in public on those platforms, something shifts. You stop building the thing you set out to build and start building something that survives comment sections.</p>
+
+      <p>You add features to defend decisions. You over-explain simple choices. You drift toward whatever gets approval instead of whatever solves the problem.</p>
+
+      <p>That's how good software turns into bloated software. I'm not doing that.</p>
+
+      <h2>I Want Signal, Not Reactions</h2>
+
+      <p>The only feedback worth anything comes from people who actually use the thing, run into real problems, and come back after it matters.</p>
+
+      <p>That feedback looks like:</p>
+
+      <blockquote>
+        <p>&ldquo;this broke under load&rdquo;</p>
+        <p>&ldquo;this workflow doesn't make sense after a week&rdquo;</p>
+        <p>&ldquo;this saved me time&rdquo;</p>
+      </blockquote>
+
+      <p>That's signal. Everything else is commentary from the stands.</p>
+
+      <h2>Distribution Isn't the Problem</h2>
+
+      <p>There's this pressure in software development to &ldquo;launch&rdquo; everywhere immediately. Like if you don't hit Reddit or Hacker News in the first week, the project is dead.</p>
+
+      <p>That's not how any of this works.</p>
+
+      <p>Good software doesn't fail because it missed a forum post. It fails because it tries to be everything to everyone. I'd rather have five real users than five thousand people who scrolled past it.</p>
+
+      <h2>This Is Intentional</h2>
+
+      <p>I'm not avoiding forums because I'm afraid of criticism. I'm avoiding them because I know exactly what kind of feedback they produce &mdash; and it's not the kind that makes software better.</p>
+
+      <p>If you found this without a Reddit thread pointing you here, that's the point.</p>
+
+      <div class="blog-cta">
+        <p>If you're using it, or thinking about using it &mdash; tell me what actually happens.</p>
+
+        <p>That's the only signal I care about.</p>
+      </div>
+
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